Snowybeagle is making excuses for racism.
I don't make excuses for racism. I don't make racism an excuse for Asian guys to complain about trouble getting dates either.
I am offended that snowybeagle does nothing but make excuses for racism. She says that we complain about racism so therefore it must be because we are nerds, not because other poeple are racist.
minotaar, did you realise the statements you made above showed that you had not read my posts properly?
Because if you had, you'd have realised snowybeagle is not female.
And you even suggested I go back and re-read the posts made by other. Hhhrrrrpmmh.
The nerve of some people.
Maybe you should hear a line that I hear a lot, as an asian male that dates asian females: "I dont date asian guys"
Snowybeagle, if you dont date asian men because of the fact that they are asian, then you are racist.
Has it ever occurred to you that this line might be racist? Has it ever occurred to you that people who use this line have racist racial preferences?
The fact is this: I don't give a camel's hair worth of consideration to people who are racists.
I don't care for their attitudes. I don't care for nazis either.
In fact, I would be much obliged if a girl comes right out and says she's racist when she turns me down: it just goes to show I was extremely careless in making my choice and I had not gotten to know her better before asking her for a date.
I've been asking this question several times to you and scp:
What is the real problem that needs to be addressed here?
The fact that scp repeated his parallel comparison of dating to job-seeking shows he still don't get it about dating.
Stop making excuses by suggesting that people here are nerdy or "square". Stop looking for reasons other than racism. Thats called denial. Stop letting racists off the hook.
I'm not suggesting people who can't get dates fail because they are nerdy rather than the girls being racists.
Read the posts I made again.
I said that girls can reject guys for a wide range of reasons, some of them totally ridiculously, apparently.
It is their prerogative.
If they chose to adopt racist attitudes, what do you want to do about them?
If they practiced racism in their capacities as a cashier or shop assistant or check-out girl, it is another matter - there are laws against that.
But if they choose to practice discrimination in their choice of dating partners, then it is no different than them preferring to gorge themselves with junk food or smoking ten packs a day.
It's foolish, but it's a matter of personal choice.