There aren't many Chinese guys paired up with non-Chinese girls in the movies, so the complains go.
So okay, statistically it can be proven.
But let's also look at the Chinese media and fiction, as well as real life.
Let's begin with history or period settings of fictions and media.
How many ethnic Han guys got non-ethnic Han girls like the Miao or the Mongols etc.
In Jin Yong's novels, there's only Xiao Feng, an ethnic Khitan, and he got paired up with A-Zhu, whose father was a Dali prince (perhaps ethnic Bai or mixed).
We could count Duan Yü as either ethnic Bai who was hanisized getting plenty of female attention.
And his father, or at least, the person he thought was his father, a famous womanizer.
Anymore?
How ethnic Mongol girls fell for ethnic Han boys in Jin Yong novels?
There's one in Condor Shooting Heroes, and another in Heavenly Sword and Dragon Sabre.
Any ethnic Mongol guys paired with an ethnic Han girl?
How about in the Sword and the Song? The hero (whom I can't stand
Let's look at most fiction and media in general.
In terms of inter-ethnic pairing ups, it's really mostly ethnic Han guys with the non-ethnic Han girls rather than ethnic Han girls with non-ethnic Han boys.
To fast forward to contemporary dramas, for inter-nationality pairing ups, I've seen more Chinese guys paired up with Japanese girls or Western girls as such rather than the other way round. And when it did happen, at least in the fiction media, the Western guy paired up with the Chinese girl would turn out to be a j*** or worse.
Okay, some might argue, I am missing the point. Westerners aren't really a part of Asian societies, or at least, they aren't permanent members, but there're plenty of Asians who are citizens in the Western societies.
That is true.
But while as a member of an Asian country, I can't really be a judge or a campaigner about what happens in another country, I can point out that media in Asian countries can also be as biased.
It's not about two wrongs making a right.
Somethings might be just a subconscious, just like when Jin Yong chose the inter-ethnic pairing ups.
I can't even say that Jin Yong actually thought of the ethnicities of his characters when he decided the pairing ups.
Let's just say that I'm still working on myself to be less conscious of ethnicity when it comes to relating to people. I don't deny discrimination and negative media portrayals exist, but for somethings, it has to begin with ourselves and our society.
I can understand Asians living in Western societies might be living under different conditions from moi, and I wish them all the best to deal with their situations.











