It reminds me of those angry Asian American guys with no girlfriends who blame their imposed celibacy on the fact "racist whites" don't put them in another action movies in potential sex situations with white women...
I actually sympathize with some of the things these guys say, it is not all wrong, but often they are way over the top. I keep thinking when I hear them crying that "pain is relevant" but if all my grandfather or even father (as a child) had to worry about in America was this, well I think they would have been very happy and there would likely have not been a "civil rights movement" well not one worth risking your life over.
I believe the website Model Minority is full of those folks...
For anyone who is interested, if you are a white male don't bother. You will be labeled a racist in 10 seconds and attacked repeatedly. If you are black or Hispanic and don't agree with everything then you will be labeled an Asian-hater, a sellout, or a lapdog for the "white power structure" LOL
IMOP this really comes down to "sex" and status in American society (or Western society) with Asian men feeling they do all the right things (get good jobs on average, do well in school on average) but almost half of Asian women date and marry non-Asian men and other races of women don't seem as interested.
I say there is true in this because of studies like this:
THe link above is a breakdown on a study on interracial dating in America...it is somewhat skewed from the beginning since it was Columbia University students, definitely not a broad cross section of the United States. :-)
However, it was interesting. If you want to skim the graphs and tables...
A key thing to look at is Table 4, the way to read it is, the lower the number the more a person wants to date someone from that group. So if you look Black women are like -o.89 for black males, meaning race was very important and they very much wanted to date a black male, white women were -.19 for Asian males, meaning the opposite. Anyway if you look at how all other groups of women feel about Asian males they are less likely to want to date them than white, black, or Hispanic males.
What else is interesting is Asian women (only second to black women) were the least racial in their choice of dating partners. That's bad for Asian men as you can see.
For women though the total breakdown in terms of importance was not race (if you believe people are as likely to lie about race and ethnicity at super politically correct Columbia as much as income...i don't think so but I will assume they were telling the truth)
Do you notice this trend in your Western coutry in regard to Asians and everyone else?
Ethnicity - 0.40
Highest Degree - 0.55
Socioeconomic index - 0.32
It seems that, according to the study, men are the least racial when it comes to dating, which is obvious.
Anyone who doubt this look at North and SOuth AMerica. South America is far more racially mixed than NOrth AMerica? Why?
Anglo-Saxon men brought their women, Portuguese and Spaniards did not (well very few). Gets kind of lonely staring at other men and that Indian woman starts looking mighty hot....the slave woman too. :-)
Anyway my theory is degree (education) roughly with socioeconomics so...that seemed to be a big thing...which is not shocking. An ugly man of high status can get a very attractive woman, happens all the time (look at Donald Trump) so I kind of believe status based on education and income mean a lot for women even in 2008...
In Western society white males have historically been the symbol of political and economic power and if you are going to marry outside your ethnic group/race and the person is non-white then you are taking somewhat of a risk...so the "other group male" has to make up for the short fall by having superior status....status can mean different things to different people. IT can mean more money, education, or just better looks...
I think the way Western culture is, especially Anglo Saxon culture, we value a lot of cultural norms that some East Asians may think are "barbaric" such as the "touch guy, bad boy...muscle guy"...
THis puts Asian males at a disadvantage.
The Asian guy might be smart, have a good education, etc. Lets say he makes $60,000 a year. Lets say a less smart and slightly poorer HIspanic or black guy is more "masculine and outgoing" and makes $45-50,000 a year, many women will see the dominent Alpha Male as superior and more "sexy"...as long as he doesn't mistreat her women (ESPECIALLY YOUNG WOMEN) will go for that guy over the guy they think of as a "nerd" or just "weak and passive".
I knew a Korean American guy who played football and as big as me (about 190cm) and more muscular...however most of Asian AMericans I grew up with were CHinese, Vietnamese, and Filipinos...they were shorter and skinnier. Some of the Filipinos had the "bad boy" image, but most were seen as smart, good students, nonathletic, nerdy...some were really into cars and had nice ones...they had fixed up...but for the most part you saw less of them with non-Asian women then you did black or HIspanics.
Many of these Asians and Hispanics are from countries where they were raised by foreign born parents. Hispanics are known to have a very masculine culture, so this can be a benefit from them, but Asian parents raising there kids with values from Asia often conflict with what is cool and sexy in the West for a man. Blacks often have a stereotype (and I am black so…) that they are too masculine or aggressive, but no one thinks they are effeminate or weak…so…
THose are my ideas...