Hi Folks:
With regarding to similarities and differences between Chinese & Western Culture, I would put it as differences from East Asian Culture (East Asian <-- refer to the Chinese, Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese people who sharing the Confucianism, Taoism, and Buddhism as the foundation of their value culture) in comparing to the Western Culture which is based on the Judae-Christian value system.
In this particular topic, it would be easier if we separate the value culture from the expressive culture <-- which is focussed primarily on our superficial differences of the language, physical appearances, foods, clothings, etc.
Following is a Table to compare the value based system of East Asia vs Western Culture:
Eastern Value .................................
Western Value Live in time............................................. Live in space
Value rest .............................................. Value activity
Passive .................................................. Assertive
Contemplative........................................ Diligent
Accept what is.......................................... Seek change
Live in nature........................................... Live with nature
Want to know meaning..............................Want to know how it works
Freedom of silence.................................... Freedom of speech
Lapse into meditation................................. Strive for articulation
Marry first, then love................................. Love first, then marry
Love is mute............................................. Love is vocal
Focus on self-abnegation ........................... Focus on self-assuredness
Learn to do with less................................. Attempt to get some more
Ideal - love of life..................................... Ideal - being successful
Honor austerity......................................... Honor achievement
Wealth & Poverty - results of fortune........... Wealth/Poverty - results of enterprise
Cherish wisdom of years............................ Cherish vitality of youth
Retire to enjoy the rewards of your work.... Retire to enjoy the gift of your family
Well, these are considered to be classic differences; however due to our modern age of internet, Hollywood entertainments, and the mobilization of different people from diversed cultural groups, the gap and differences among people are more and more lesser as well as shorter to few likings yet!