QUOTE(Hannibal27 @ Oct 1 2007, 08:55 PM)

I agree; regardless of whether strategy and tactics result in short term loss or victory, be rest assured that if it is not in accordance with the big picture, one is bound to have created future conflict for themselves.
Attach the consideration of the welbeing of the big picture to your goals and you will begin on a path to knowing yourself. Once aware of yourself and practiced with the experience of moving with this consideration, you will then be able to know others and your surrounding more clearly. When looking at the big picture, remember it includes everyone/everything. A mistake people often make is viewing anyone as an enemy. Enemies do not exist past the ego; it is our choice to join or feed such ignorance and destructive thinking. Sit outside of it and you can move people and win without fighting because there will be no resistance. Compassion is a key.
Weakness: I make mistakes; as well I work with my wife
Strengths: I've learnt and developed from the many mistakes I've made, and will continue to learn from the many more to come.
Was working with a strategy consultant in Silicon Valley. Where he talked to me about the integration of two different big pictures, the strategy and the individuals.
It was quite deep in concept and pragmatic in its functionality.
What he told me was , "The Will to Will is the Greater than anything else. The Will to Prepare is greater than the Will to win."
He told me "To gain this state of "Will to Will", it starts with attaining that consummate conscious state of completeness. ... To be a competent competitor that wins, it starts with that. ... You can't think that you are going to win when you can't feel you are going to win. It is having a complete conscious state that enables you to expect to win."
Am only touching on the brief points of the conversation. It is more deeper than what is written.
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>Compassion is a key.
To become compassionate, one must have the conscious to be in that state.
One can have all of the strategy and tactics in the world. If he does not have the conscious to implement the Dao of Strategy, this boy is not going to win.